Vande Hey

Personal Empowerment Coach & Speaker

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My Story

I never thought I would suffer from depression, let alone, anxiety, and PTSD. After losing my son when he was 12 weeks old, I was in denial about my mental health.

I didn’t know who I was or what I wanted from life anymore.

I soon realized that I in order for me to find myself I had take care of me first.  I needed to invest in myself.  I couldn’t love people more than I loved myself.

I had to put myself first.  Before my husband, before my living daughter and before my clients. 

My physical and mental health have improved, my relationships have gotten deeper and my clients are getting better results all because I chose to love myself first!

Transform Your Pain into Purpose & Influence Change!

Was the painful life transition you’ve experienced a catalyst for change in you?  It’s like you have a whole new lens you’re seeing and experiencing life from.  Your desire to make a bigger impact has grown.

You’re ready to take on the world, but you’re neglecting yourself and that’s affecting your physical and mental health, your relationships and maybe even your finances.

As changemakers you tend to take care of everyone else first and give yourself whatever you have left.  This needs to change and can even be harmful to not just you, but everyone around you!

You can’t love anyone else more than you love yourself so you need to start with loving yourself!  When you do, I promise you will have better relationships, feel more energized and make more money!   

Take my hand and let me help you. I am a one-of-a-kind personal empowerment coach. I will guide you with my unique perspective as an intersex person and bereaved parent along with my professional training as a certified holistic life coach.

You are worth it!

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Healing Hearts. Sparking Joy. Influencing Change.

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Client Success Stories

I’m so glad I have you to help me through this! I feel alone even though I’m in a house with 3 other people. It’s crazy how alone I feel in all this.

Thank you! 💜 I’m so proud of how far I have come! I’m getting ready to go for my first jog in years!!!

Featured In

Holistic Moms Mental Health Summit

Go Solo Article

The Dreambank

Brava Magazine
(Article page 70)

Find Meaning

Light of Love Coaching

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